Finding the Balance

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Battling Hyperemesis Gravidarum

Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) - is a condition of pregnancy characterized by intractable nausea, vomiting, and dehydration and is estimated to affect 0.5-2.0% of pregnant women. (Wikipedia.org)

 

When I was pregnant with Amelia I knew absolutely nothing about HG or even that it existed. So when I got severely sick and ended up in the hospital for dehydration at 13 weeks I began researching HG after one of the doctors mentioned it. It was nice to know I wasn’t crazy and being that sick was not all in my head. It got better around 14 weeks and I could come off all medication around 20ish weeks. I consider what I had was mild HG as I only required one overnight stay in the hospital.

During the last couple years with Amelia we decided that if we were to ever get pregnant again we’d have a plan of action in place. Ways that can help me cope with HG. We knew what to expect this time so we were determined to fight back and not make it as much of a miserable pregnancy experience. I was determined to have a good pregnancy and one I could look forward to.

Fast forward to this October when we found out we were indeed pregnant. We were so happy. I knew to enjoy the moment now because HG would creep up on me and it would be hard to enjoy it later. I enjoyed one blissful week of pregnancy before the unrelenting nausea started. Week 4 was my dream week. I looked up baby stuff online I was excited to read about it and talk about. I even was stupid enough to think that I could do this! This pregnancy may not be so bad. That was definitely the calm before the storm.

The nausea started out not so bad and I could combat it with eating in the morning. By week 6 I called into the dr’s office and was given a prescription of Zofran. I took this with Amelia and it did help when the HG wasn’t at its peak. It worked probably for a couple days and then I was vomiting 5-8 times a day but I was still trying to eat and trying to keep fluids down. I was doing it! I was making it work! Around week 8 or 7 I was vomiting every hour so I got another medication on top of the Zofran called Phenergan. This allowed me to feel better. Although it made me super sleepy so I could only take it at night.

I was still managing to make it to work and at least make a good effort at doing my job. The nausea was relentless. It was truly debilitating. I had to tell my bosses around 8 weeks because they needed to know that I was so sick. They were extremely understanding and worked with me. I am very thankful for that.

At 10 weeks was the first time I went into the hospital for fluids. I was able to go in after my half day of work on Friday and I was there past 8pm. Two bags of fluid later. I really didn’t feel any better but with resting over the weekend I made it back into work on Tuesday. I took the following Monday off. During this time I was completely useless in caring for myself and Amelia. Thank God for family. My in laws would help me in the evenings when Adam was working. They’d feed, bath, and put Amelia to bed for me. All I could manage to do was lay in bed.

The nausea and vomiting didn’t let up but continued to get worse to the point where drinking was impossible and eating was few and far between. All I could do was lay in bed. I couldn’t read or watch tv because I had severe motion sickness. I was throwing up constantly. I ended up back in the hospital 3 more times in 10 days between weeks 11 and 12. I even had to go in on Christmas! Every five days I’d be back. The nurses and doctors knew me very well. I remember Adam and I walking into labor and delivery triage and him holding me up because I was so weak. I’d get medicine through an IV and several bags of fluid every time. I was rapidly losing weight. I had to quit working at Christmas time. I just couldn’t do it anymore. So I went on disability.

When I had to go back to the hospital on the 19th of December the doctors showed great concern due to the fact that I had lost 17lbs. I was admitted into the hospital. I was so severely dehydrated my urine was brown. Although I panicked and yelled for the nurse because I thought it was red and I was bleeding. But the nurse assured me that I wasn’t bleeding but just severely dehydrated.  That evening they took out their doppler and tried to find the baby’s heartbeat but couldn’t find it. So the dr came in with the ultrasound machine because it was easier. I was 13 weeks at this point. She very calmly asked us if we had an ultrasound before this. We told her no we haven’t. We’ve just heard the heartbeat. Adam and I started at each other scared to death something was wrong with the baby. Then the dr says “Well I see two babies” … … … … “WHAT?!” We were both in a state of shock from that point forward. It was mixed emotions from there for me. A part of me was relieved there was a reason I was as sick as I was and the other part of me completely resentful because of how sick I was.

The next week I stayed in the hospital getting plenty of fluids, rest, and medicine through the IVs. By the time I was released a week later the doctors had me on different meds. Haldol (sp?) which initial is a medicine for Psych patients but can be used to combat nausea and they had me on a low dose of steroids. By the time I was released and went home I was ok for a day or two but quickly the vomiting started up again. I couldn’t keep any medications down. So again I went back into the hospital this time they decided to put me on a PICC Line so I could get nutrition and stay hydrated. They said my liver enzymes were high due to starvation. So I got the PICC Line put in and given another altered line of medicine to try. I lasted a few days but was starting to get sick slowly again. I went back to the hospital when I vomited 3 times in one morning. The doctors at this point were at a complete loss. They decided on doing Zofran through my PICC Line since that seemed to stabilize me in the hospital. For 2 weeks I received the TPN bag for 12 hours every night and every 6 hours I was giving myself a dose of Zofran through the PICC Line. Towards the end of January I was taken off the TPN but still on the IV Zofran. That continued for another couple weeks.

I was finally able to return to work on the 14th of February. The PICC Line was removed on the 18th.

I had such tremendous help from my family during this time. I couldn’t have done it without them. I also couldn’t have done it while working full time and am so thankful I was able to take the time to get better. Now I’m back at work and feeling so much better and can actually concentrate on my work. I still struggle with some nausea in the morning but I have some Zofran pills I take from time to time. I’m also still working on getting my strength back. I was basically bedridden for 2 months+ straight. I am so thankful now at 21 weeks to say I’ve survived HG yet again. This time I can honestly say this was the severe form of HG and I am so lucky it hasn’t lasted the whole pregnancy. I’ve been excited to begin getting ready for these boys.

I want to be an advocate for HG Awareness and Education. It impacts such a small percentage of pregnant women and a lot do not know how bad it can get. I didn’t. I am glad I have come out the other side and would love to help others get through it to. It’s a very lonely and depressing time and only those of us that have been through it can truly understand the price we pay to have families.

If you’re suffering from HG Please feel free to get a hold of me. I’d be happy to talk with you.

 

Soon to be a Family of Five!

The last few months have been anything but uneventful and I apologize for not writing sooner. Our family is expanding in a big way! Back at the end of October my husband and I found out we were pregnant! At the new year we found out we were pregnant with not one baby but two babies! This was quite the shock and I think something we’re still trying to process. But we’re ecstatic, anxious, and scared all in one! A month ago we found out the babies are identical twin boys! Perfect little guys to round out our perfect family. We’re now sitting at 21 weeks and all is looking good.

 

We’re going from a family of three to a family of five!

 

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Baby A and Baby B at 13 Weeks

With this pregnancy I suffered from a severe form of morning sickness call Hyperemesis Gravidarum or HG. I will cover my experience in the next post about this.

 

Amelia 2nd Birthday Party!

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Yesterday marked the day of Amelia’s 2nd birthday party in Pittsburgh. This is the final round of celebration for such a special girl! This round we celebrated with most of Adam’s family since they all live in the area. We had the party at Aunt Jill’s house. In case you’re unsure we had a Sesame Street theme.

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I ordered the cake from The Priory bakery in the North Side. They did an amazing job with the cake. I was extremely pleased!

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Jill stumbled upon the idea to create Elmo and Big Bird out of fruit. I think they came out great!

We had a yummy dinner of spaghetti and meatballs with garlic bread. Followed by birthday cake!

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She didn’t cry this time when everyone sang to her! Progress!

Her cousin Zach wanted to blow out candles too. His 3rd birthday is coming up in December so we decided it was his farewell to the 2s!

After cake it was gift time. She got. Lot of great toys that I’m sure will get plenty of use! Zach and Amelia both enjoyed the Elmo tent she got from grandma and granddad.

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She loved the Cinderella umbrella she got from Mom and Dad!

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Amelia had to include the umbrella in the family pictures!

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She had such a good party! Times like these remind us how amazing our families are! Thank you everyone for a great party!

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Happy 2nd Birthday Amelia!

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Today, my beautiful baby girl turns 2! Happy birthday my sweet angel! You deserve all the happiness in the world!

We started off our celebration when Amelia woke up at 7:30am. Adam and I went into see her together and to wish her a happy birthday. Her Aunt Jill gave her a new Elmo doll last night and that doll was still in her grip this morning. We got her dressed and finished packing for our trip to Clearfield to see her Nana and Papa and have her birthday party! She was very excited to be in the car so she can watch Mickey Mouse on her DVD player. We stopped and picked up Grandma on the way because she’s coming with us for the weekend to celebrate!

Family and friends joined us for a wonderful lunch!

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After lunch we sang happy birthday and had cake and ice cream!

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Amelia cried when everyone sang Happy Birthday to her. I didn’t think we were all that bad!

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But she recovered in time to blow out the candles

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After everyone had their cake we opened presents. Amelia was way more interested in playing with the balloons Nana and Papa got her but I’m sure she’ll get plenty of wear out of her new toys!

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She had such a fun day celebrating with everyone and we are really blessed to have such amazing friends and family to be apart of it!

Below are some more pictures of Amelia enjoying her birthday!

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Next weekend is her Pittsburgh birthday party. The fun isn’t over yet!

Mickey Mouse Cupcakes!

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I got the idea to make Mickey Mouse cupcakes off of a friend and I’m extremely pleased with the outcome! I think the mini Oreos look cute as Mickey ears! Hopefully everyone else will get it!

Amelia is turning 2 on Saturday! I can’t believe it! Time is going way to fast! I made these cupcakes tonight so Amelia can take them with her to school tomorrow to share with her friends.

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Water Fountain Fun!

My brother Dominick had the great idea to take us to the Marina and there is a fountain area where kids can play in the water. We put Amelia’s swim suit on and let her have at it.

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Anthony slept through the whole thing only to wake up and eat and then go back to sleep.

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We left in time to grab some lunch!

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First Day in Sarasota

The first day in Florida i was able to get my hands on my newest nephew Anthony! That was the first time I held a baby aside from Amelia which was over a year ago! He was so cute and snugly! He is a really good baby. Only seems to cry when he’s hungry or tired. VERY different from Amelia who just had to be held all the time and bounced.

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Every morning my parents took Anthony for a walk so when we got there they just added Amelia into their morning routine! Gave Adam and I time to either go back to sleep or just relax in the morning. Anthony would come back sleeping and Amelia would come back ready to swim in the pool!

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Sarasota here we come!

Vacation time! Finally! I feel like we’ve been waiting forever to get some vacation time. To get out of the office and out of Pittsburgh. We left Friday after I was done with work and headed to the airport where we got on a flight to Tampa Florida where my parents, brother Dominick, sister-in-law Viviane, and our newest nephew Anthony were waiting to take us onto Sarasota!

While at the airport Amelia stumbled upon a toy store and they had a wall of sesame street! Everything was up high but luckily her daddy is tall. She kept saying “It’s high!” she was never so happy than she was with the wall of sesame street.

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Amelia ran herself silly until it was time to get on the plane. She was so tired that she fell asleep 10 minutes after the flight took off. She slept for a good 40 minutes and then woke up when it was snack time. She did really well and we pulled out her DVD player and let her watch Elmo. Landed with no problems.

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We found everyone at the gate and they accompanied us to get our baggage. Amelia was being shy but warmed up to nana fast. We went out to eat at a Brazilian steakhouse. Was so yummy! And Amelia got to try some different foods. After dinner we trekked onto Sarasota which was about an hour from Tampa.

As soon as we got in the house Amelia spotted Dominick’s pool. “Water!” she dipped her toes in and before we knew it she was in the pool with her clothes on!

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We quickly put on her swimsuit and let her have at it. Daddy and uncle Beaker (aka Dominick) got in with her.

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That was our first day in Florida! Adam and I were so impressed with Amelia and how she handled being off routine and not really having a nap. She was such a trooper! Makes us want to travel more with her!

Zoo Trip for Father’s Day

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On Father’s day we decided to take a trip to the Pittsburgh Zoo. The last time we went was last year with my whole family. Amelia was only 7/8 months old and really could have cared less that she was at the zoo. Adam and I were thrilled to take her now that she’s older and walking! We decided to head out early in the morning so we could get there when the zoon opened at 9:30am. Amelia being the ever accommodating child she is decided to wake up at 5 in the morning that morning. She was fussy. Also being father’s day I of course didn’t kick Adam out of bed to take care of her. I hopped out of bed (ok, more like fell out) and quickly turned off the baby monitor so Adam could keep sleeping. I trudged over to Amelia’s room which was next door and she was crying. So her and I rocked and slept in the rocking chair until 7am. She maybe totaled 30 minutes of actual sleeping. I dozed on and off. I really thought my days of sleeping with her in that rocking chair were over. Clearly Amelia was feeling reminiscent. Around 7am I decided it was a good time to go over and wake Daddy up. We opened the door and I had Amelia say ‘Happy Daddy’s Day!” which came out more like “Happy Daddy Dadadadad” but the sentiment was what really mattered.

After Amelia smacks Adam in the head to wake him up (she’s efficient what can I say?) I take her with me downstairs so I can start on making Adam his pancake breakfast he requested the day before. Poor guy. Some days I can make a good pancake other days I fail miserably. I need to work on my technique. But he smiled and insisted they were yummy and said he’s saving the last two pancakes for the next morning! They were just that good! We both get dressed and then I get Amelia dressed. I change her diaper and decide to first get her sunscreen on because I didn’t want to forget. Her being a red-head we need to protect that perfect skin! Lucky for us Amelia LOVES her sunscreen. She stands there and holds out her arms so I can spray it on and rub it in. She giggles when I spray it on her back and belly. She also gets very upset when I’m done applying it. She just really loves her sunscreen. After I get her dressed we back a little bit of a snack and her water sippy and off we go!

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We arrive at the zoo about 9:45am. A little later than we wanted but no big deal. There was quite a few people there which I was hoping everyone would be at church but being Father’s day we weren’t the only people to think of this awesome plan to go to the zoo. We only had to purchase one admission to get in. Me. Amelia being under 2 is free. Adam being a Dad was free. That was a nice surprise. So $14 was all it cost us! Amelia lasted in the stroller until we got to the first exhibit. Then she refused to get back in and we were left pushing an empty stroller but it was ok. I had a place to put my purse and camera and it was also a snack table on wheels for Amelia! Our first stop was the Snow Leopard. Amelia called it a cat which we didn’t correct her on. She was just really excited to be walking around. I’d show her an animal and then she’d get so excited and then dart across where Adam was standing with the stroller yelling “Daddy!” no mind to anyone walking in her path. She just had to show her Daddy the animals. I’d stay with the stroller while Adam took his turn. The high lights were definitely the Flamingo’s or “bird!”. She loved the Gorilla’s. She got excited after we told her that it was Little Gorilla from her book “Little Gorilla”. The Gorilla’s were eating popcorn and were cute. Amelia referred to them as “Rilla!” Exclamation point included.

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After the Gorilla’s we got some lunch. Chicken tenders, fries, and grapes. An Amelia approved lunch. After lunch we headed over to the aquarium and that was definitely the most exciting for Amelia. She kept going “WOAH! Fish!” and just looking at them and going “Wow!” That made it worth it right there. She got a kick out of the Penguins. We saw the Polar bear and a little bit of the seals. By this point I could tell Amelia was getting tired because she was just fighting us more than usual about things. She just wanted to go up and down these set of stairs and when I told her it was time to go she’d flip out. We made our way back to the car. And on the 40 minute ride home Amelia fell asleep. Which was nice and I was hoping to transfer to her crib so she could finish her nap. She needed it! She was up at 5am for goodness sakes! As soon as we pulled up in front of the house her eyes popped open and then that was it. No more nap. We tried and she just was chattering away in her crib for a good 40 minutes until we gave up and let her out. She was not going back to sleep.

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When it was time to go to bed that night Amelia just HAD to read her book “Little Gorilla”.

All-in-all it was a very great day. Very busy and tiring especially for those of us up at 5am but it was a day I would do over in a heart beat. Since this is Amelia’s last summer being free to the zoo we’re going to go a lot I think.

Happy Father’s Day to my wonderful husband! I couldn’t imagine a better Father!

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Quick Update!

 

It has been a while since and actual blog post and my apologies. I have been slammed at work and super busy in the evenings. I’ll try to recap as much as possible.

Last week I got my wisdom teeth out and if one more person asks me if I have any less wisdom I may lay them out flat! Joke was cute once and caused me to smile. Various times after that? Not so much. I’m still recovering as I had one impacted tooth and that’s the only reason it hurts now. I’m taking Ibuprofen every 6-8 hours. I had my follow-up appointment yesterday and the Dr said I may still feel some pain for another week. So I am mentally prepared for that. All is healing well. I had to miss 2 days of work last week and that set me back immensely. I have some huge projects coming up and I’m trying to bust my butt to get them done on time. Plus we’ll be leaving in 3 weeks for Florida to meet Mr. Anthony! So I want to make sure I leave on a good note. I also started tutoring this week in computer programming. That has actually been really fun and it allows us some extra cash to hopefully use in Florida. So with everything it’s hard to find time to take pictures and document the fun.

Amelia’s language has been exploding the last week! She is constantly talking. I think she takes after her dad. I’m not much of a talker. Her dad on the other hand! She’s actually saying sentences which catch me off guard because it just started out of the blue. When did she know how to do that?! For instance the other day she’s chasing her ball around the house. She’d throw it and then run after it yelling “I get the ball!” She’s not really talking at daycare. They said the other day Amelia didn’t say one word at daycare. She just played by herself. As soon as Adam walked in the door to pick her up she gets up and runs to him yelling “Daddy!” and then continued chatting about everything. Daycare was shocked to see her talk so much. We think she just has this inner circle of people she talks to. This includes immediate family.

Another daycare story is at daycare they have this Buzz Light-year toy. It’s pretty big and it sings and dances I guess. All the kids love it. And every time Adam drops off Amelia at daycare she immediately says “Hello Buzz!” and then when it’s time to go she just HAS to say goodbye to Buzz. It’s all she ever talks about at home. And Buzz has made it into the inner circle because Amelia always says “Buddy, Buzz!” We though she adored Buzz. But I guess when they turn him on at daycare she starts backing away from it crying. This has been a new development because they said she used to really love it. So not sure what changed. She still talks about Buzz all the time. “Buzz!” is the first word out of her mouth as soon as you pick her up. Strange, my child.

This weekend we’re off to a wedding for my friend in my home town. So we’re going to hang out with my parents this weekend. It’s supposed to be hot so I think we’ll get out Amelia’s pool we bought her for there. Below are pictures of her in the pool from last time!